tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post4153740301471006995..comments2008-06-28T21:42:18.867+08:00LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-80136602148276266992008-06-28T21:42:00.000+08:002008-06-28T21:42:00.000+08:00

Hi TrisnaThanks for dropping by.. be right there to check out your answer :)See you!

LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-56251703241544590682008-06-28T20:32:00.000+08:002008-06-28T20:32:00.000+08:00

Greetings (^_^)Just passing bye to say, that i'm one of the TAG victim, bye Gratcia Siahaya; the age that i wish i to go back toI enjoy reading your post btw (^^,)See me here1984, 2 years old little rebel~^_^~Cheers!

Trisnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05609931705355584677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-83480768674414240562008-05-17T18:20:00.000+08:002008-05-17T18:20:00.000+08:00

Yes Farah.. it was hard not being able to say goodbye. in fact I only spoke to him once since he left with my mom to Johor that weekend.. We always think there's time kan... when in fact.. there's never enough..the docs could not find anything wrong so org kat maybe kena buat org. ..maklumlah my parents ada kedai makan.. so when one person down.. kedai pun affected kan..InsyAllah, he's happier

LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-82086392321321773742008-05-17T17:20:00.000+08:002008-05-17T17:20:00.000+08:00

LJ, this entry of yours brought tears to my eyes. I can imagine this, one moment the person looks all good and recovering, and the next, he's gone. I am so sorry for you. it must have been tough to arrive without having to kiss him and say goodbye right?what was actually wrong with arwah? was it really something modern medicine can't figure? or maybe even you don't know still. anyway, i hope he's

Farah Deenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07430090851353499279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-64714685280780241522008-05-16T23:44:00.000+08:002008-05-16T23:44:00.000+08:00

Nat. welcome back dearie.. tulah doctor tu siap buat apa tu yg ambik air kat spine tu and then still cannot find anything wrong.. cian my late dad. I still remember dia kata sakit time depa took the liquid.. and I was there when they took it lagi.. I can still remember his face...:(Anyway.. I'm fine.. just wished I could have been there when he left you know.. sigh...Nat.. takper.. you buat when

LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-36834028407002555512008-05-16T23:32:00.000+08:002008-05-16T23:32:00.000+08:00

LJ,sorry to hear that..I don't think I would be that strong to be there if I were you...must be very hard for you to go through ur days after that right?...oh so sorry.so you don't know the cause of death?sucks la that doc..should hv referred ur late dad to other centres for opinion and management right?btw,you are strong lady..pssst:eh why i taktau pun i was tagged?hehehheee nnti ek bila ada

natrahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15809353923426488416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-45601205523004545772008-05-15T12:16:00.000+08:002008-05-15T12:16:00.000+08:00

heheh zubli.. i kasi chance kot this month... takper.. slow slow i catch up eh..lol..Yg perfume tu I punya lahh!! lolzz.. and I know what you mean coz you meant it!! ehehhe

LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-66095112536471208232008-05-15T10:49:00.000+08:002008-05-15T10:49:00.000+08:00

Once upon a time, masa you tak kenal I lagi, I am reputed to place long comments. Gee, macamlah dema tak tahu, I can give a short one too. The shortest I have given was to Mariuca. I hope she remembers. The second, *14!* tu lah. I hope to be known next as the Top Number 1 Commenter. Kecuali yang bagi perfume tuu, susah sikit nak memfotongnya...You know what I mean, and I meant what I mean. LOL!!!

Zubli Zainordinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02421807137210457345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-10955646347693207802008-05-15T10:46:00.000+08:002008-05-15T10:46:00.000+08:00

14!

Zubli Zainordinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02421807137210457345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-23884552134397568502008-05-14T09:50:00.000+08:002008-05-14T09:50:00.000+08:00

Ok Trin..I'll get to it ASAP!! Eh any chup today??Syura.. it doesn't get any easier kan?? I miss him so much as well.. I wish my hubby could have met him.. sigh...

LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-20501830018515120122008-05-14T09:46:00.000+08:002008-05-14T09:46:00.000+08:00

wah.. so happy to hear that!! I'll wait.. hurry..hurry.. :-)

Trinityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10438132815959130926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-38320408307806688082008-05-14T02:08:00.000+08:002008-05-14T02:08:00.000+08:00

Awww.. I feel you too LJ! I wanna go back to anytime before my dad passed away.. I wasn't with him too.. I totally know how you feel. And it still doesn't get any easier after so many years..

ratu syurahttp://ratusyura.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-40198464755634738872008-05-13T20:38:00.000+08:002008-05-13T20:38:00.000+08:00

Hi Jean..Thanks for sharing your story with me. I'm so sorry to hear about your father too.. I can't imagine losing someone so suddenly like that. Like you, it still hurt to talk about my dad too.. so I don't..Hugs to you too dearie!!

LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-68178354539852891762008-05-13T16:39:00.000+08:002008-05-13T16:39:00.000+08:00

LJ, im so sorry! I understood how u felt. Reading your post reminds me of my dad. I've been avoiding talking about my dad's because I am still not over it yet. I think about him every single day and it hurts alot. yeah, i regretted not spending enough time with him too. I was only starting my plan to make him happy because I am beginning to have more money to spend. Why? I just want to forget

Jean Chia aka Ms.Yummy~licioushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07375693303718191652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-47228568566537760412008-05-13T13:16:00.000+08:002008-05-13T13:16:00.000+08:00

Hi Carolyn..Wow! What a young age to lose a parent! My sympathies :)Yeah I wished I had taken care of my dad more when he was sick. I was always busy with work you know. Now I regret not spending more time with him too :(Shirley, sad lah kan...yeah we always take for granted those that love us the most.. aiyohh want to cry again already...

LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-63788398544066699082008-05-13T12:56:00.000+08:002008-05-13T12:56:00.000+08:00

I should say, it is an interesting topic... its hurt so much when somebody you love passed away... i wish i can turn back the clock .. to say 'i love you grandma' before she passed away... i was still young when she passed away and i remember i was so angry with her because she wont let me go out and play. i feel like crying already..

shirleywww.beautiza.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-70891893533565453882008-05-13T12:45:00.000+08:002008-05-13T12:45:00.000+08:00

LJMy father passed away 8 years ago and I was the last person he saw minutes before he turn coma in the hospital. He died 4 days later in ICU due to kidney and heart failure. I wish I could go back to my younger days where I could spend more valuable moments with him. Being the only daughter, he was the greatest man in my life and always be till now in our hearts. Always miss him esp on his death

Carolynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07996825275944758498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-60127311122602091962008-05-13T12:36:00.000+08:002008-05-13T12:36:00.000+08:00

Trin.. it still hurt whenever I think of the day you know.. and like i said to GP! I had to stop a few times when writing it coz got to get tissue!!Anyway.. I would refine this and let you have it soon ya.. I want to post a handsome picture of him too!!Alahai pity you Emila.. tu lah hurts so much when you can't be them that last time kan.. I was not expecting him to go.. coz when my mom call that

LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-2156102004239690932008-05-13T11:05:00.000+08:002008-05-13T11:05:00.000+08:00

So sad. Reminds me of when my atok passed away. Dia dah nazak and I was busy calling my auntie who did not answered her phone. I had to go to her house to inform her about my atok. Apparently the whole family was sleeping like logs. When I got back, my atok has passed away. I cried for days, weeks and months. I could have said goodbye or I love you. I wish my atok could hear me now.

Emila Yusofhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743871779978775534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-42306783478346540252008-05-13T11:03:00.000+08:002008-05-13T11:03:00.000+08:00

wah, good post LJ.. should be posted in Tribute to Dads! Matthew was right, This post is heartfelt! Touching... sweet.. loving.. I know you love your ayah very much.. *hugs*

Trinityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10438132815959130926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-70124851873553784102008-05-13T07:27:00.000+08:002008-05-13T07:27:00.000+08:00

Gd Morning GP!! My sleep yesterday was also terrible.. first tak tidor coz gi office.. then slept at 6pm and woke up 11pm.. till now.. pasni nak kena gi bank pulak..ish ish ish...It is still very hard for me to write this... bukan lah nak jadi crybaby kan.. but even when I was typing it.. i had to stop a few times coz sebak you know.. but it felt good to actually say the words so thanks for tag

LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-58454980360164622542008-05-13T07:22:00.000+08:002008-05-13T07:22:00.000+08:00

Morning LJ! I tertidur awal semalam, cause didn't get enough sleep the previous night. :)Even after all these years, it's still hard for u to write this, so thanks for sharing dearie. It's not easy to lose a loved one, what more ur Dad. My heart goes out to u, love and hugs for LJ! :)

Mariucahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12007881762639103700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-52949121983506012332008-05-13T05:53:00.000+08:002008-05-13T05:53:00.000+08:00

Dear Matt..Thank you for your kind comment. It was very hard for me to write this and I really don't want to re-live the day again but how I wished I could really go back.. just to see him "healthy" for even that one night.Have a great day :)

LadyJavahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00443186141757669564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5497205081257901305.post-24430038570253471402008-05-13T05:46:00.000+08:002008-05-13T05:46:00.000+08:00

I think this is the best response to a tag for a meme I have ever read. Your post is very poignant and heartfelt. Cheers!

Matthew S. Urdanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15423237354496730048noreply@blogger.com